All Posts by Shay

Look, it can be hard to know how a guy feels about you, I know. We guys aren’t always the best about knowing our own feelings, much less making them obvious to you or anyone else. But there are some things we can’t help doing, and as a result, you can tell from our actions […]

You’ve finally jumped aboard the online dating ship and are ready to start attracting some fantastic dates…welcome aboard! The Internet gives you access to a wider area of partner possibilities – seriously, across the entire globe – and instantly increases your chances of finding someone you just click with than, say, your small town of […]

Wondering how to emotionally connect with a man? Good question. In fact, it’s probably the smartest question considering that the way to a man’s heart is, well, through his heart. So building emotional connection is the wisest way to go. After all, in order for a relationship to work, you need to build a lasting […]

You’re officially ready to jump back into the dating game but wait…you’ve forgotten how. Don’t worry, after years of parenting and being focused on your children, it’s perfectly normal. And as hard as it seems, you’ll learn to get better at juggling romance with all the responsibilities and tasks of being a single parent. Of […]

One thing every women who’s been in an emotionally unfulfilling relationship wants to know is: Do emotionally unavailable men change? The short answer? No. Not usually. Very rarely. The longer answer: Sometimes, but again, it’s pretty rare, and there are some other issues that often also need to be addressed. That said, let’s dive in! […]

Let’s be honest. We all sacrifice a whole lot of time and expend a whole lot of energy trying to make ourselves more attractive to men, don’t we? We go to the gym, buy clothes we don’t always feel comfortable in, wake up early to do our hair, let our friend eat that extra cupcake…so […]

You laugh together. You share intimate secrets. You know each other’s favorite ice cream flavor. In short, the days are brighter, the nights are warmer and everything is wonderful but you can’t help yourself from wondering where this is all going. Does he see a future with you or is he just having fun? It […]

There’s a lot of info out there on emotionally unavailable men but their women counterparts can be just as heartbreaking, although there isn’t as much said about them. That’s ’cause we usually associate emotional unavailability with men, but women can be just as closed-off and inaccessible. But first, what do we even mean by “emotionally unavailable?” […]

Men always complain about how women get in their bad moods – we request chocolate with a raised voice, we demand an extra glass of wine to get over a day’s worth of work, and we get totally pissed off when a guy does something really stupid. Apparently being a bitch is a bad thing. […]

Met a cute guy and been dating him for awhile but suspect he’s a dud? Well, you know what they say about women’s intuition. But if you need more than intuition to go by, here are 10 tell tale bad boyfriend signs to help you establish if you should call it quits and jump back […]