Let’s be honest. Who doesn’t want to know some simple ways to make yourself more attractive to men? After all, we all sacrifice a whole lot of time and expend a whole lot of energy trying to make ourselves more attractive to the opposite sex.
We go to the gym, buy clothes we don’t always feel comfortable in, wake up early to do our hair, let our friend eat that extra cupcake…so many sacrifices when really, becoming a more attractive person is pretty simple.
Many of these might not immediately apply when you’re online dating and corresponding online, but they’ll quickly come through on dates or any other sort of physical interaction.
So, here goes. The 6 quick and easy ways to make yourself more attractive to men.
Smile
This one is so absurdly simple, yet it’s something we so frequently forget to do. When you’re stressed out about your job, or frustrated from being stuck in traffic – how long do you let yourself go without smiling?
Oh, that long? That’s a shame, especially since people are naturally attracted to happy people and one of the easiest indicators of happiness? Smiling, of course. In fact, smiling is scientifically proven to make you appear more attractive.
Laugh
An obvious follow-up to smiling, there is nothing more attractive than seeing someone’s face light up in laughter. Remember the last person who laughed in utter titillation at your jokes? Didn’t that make them 10 times more attractive? Well, the same applies to you.
Let yourself laugh easily and fully – open your mouth, stretch your smile, and really let go! – it’ll instantly increase your attractiveness.
Be grateful
Being grateful of what you have, the people around you, your circumstances make you a happier person. It also makes you a more well-mannered, polite, and appreciative person – all characteristics that are attractive to be around.
Gratefulness for all the little pleasures and gifts that come your way naturally makes you radiant and fun to be around – this is one of the most attractive qualities a person can possess.
Take care of the basics
Whenever studies are conducted on what people find attractive, researchers are surprised to find out that people are attracted to cleanliness and neatness – not overwhelming beauty and hotness.
The simple things – like showering, smelling clean and fresh, wearing well-fitting and nicely maintained clothes, having clean teeth and nails – go a long way toward someone finding you attractive.
Maintain eye contact
Eye contact is one of the easiest ways to establish connection between people. When you’re talking to someone, give them the benefit of your attention by establishing and holding eye contact.
Of course we don’t mean to stare creepily into their soul, but let them know that you’re interested enough in what they have to say that you’re not letting your eyes whiz around the room for something more fascinating.
Giving your full attention to a man is one of the most surefire ways to make yourself more attractive to him.
Use your hands
No, not like that – get your mind out of the gutter. We mean more along the lines of gestures.
Using your hands to gesticulate when you’re speaking enhances the conversation and displays enthusiasm to the person you’re talking to.
Not to mention, being more active with your hands will allow you to naturally lean in close to the person you’re having a conversation with and lightly touch them at moments – for emphasis or flirtation – which is a fantastic way to both show attention and ascertain if the person you’re talking to is also interested in you.